Best Way To Impress A Girl With Your Conversation Skills

Best Way To Impress A Girl With Your Conversation Skills

When most guys see a girl from across the room, they tend to think in terms of how to impress her. They imagine they need to come up with some stories about themselves, or their job, or something they've done that makes them seem like a true "alpha."

This can work, but it has a couple of drawbacks. One is that if you try to impress with yourself or your accomplishments, you're going to be comparing yourself to every other guy in the bar. That's fine if you're confident that you can "out alpha" every guy in the room, but most guys can't.

Also, if you take this approach, she's going to be comparing you, in her mind, to all of the guys she's talked to, or has dated, in the last couple of weeks. For example, if you tell her you want to become a pilot and you're taking flying lessons, and she already dated a pilot last week, (or some guy that told her he was) you're going to be at a disadvantage.

So what's a better tactic? Become impressive by being impressed. A golden rule of magic communication was taught by none other than Dale Carnegie decades ago. The best way to become interesting to somebody is to become interested in them.

This means you won't have to think of anything to say, or worry how you stack up against every other drooling chump in the place. You've just got to find out some interesting things about and allow yourself to be genuinely impressed.

Think about it from her perspective. She has a line of dudes trying to out alpha each other with their stories and lines and wit. Then you come along, become interested in her, become curious enough to ask her about the things she cares about.

Not only that, but she sees genuine interest and appreciation for her on your face. This is something the other guys don't have. Sure, they're interested in her face and body, but that's about it.

But you walk up there, start asking her some open ended questions about her interests, desires, and plans, and suddenly she opens up. A guy who's not JUST interested in her for her body, but her mind as well.

I'm sure you know that genuine guys like you are few and far between. So when you show up and get a real conversation going, based on timeless communication skills that really turn her on, on a deep emotional and psychological level, you'll do much better than any other guy out there.