Telling stories is a great way to
get girls attracted to you. You can do this one on one, or in a group. If you
can pull this off in a group (much easier than you think) you'll generate TONS
of social proof, and the girls will literally be fighting over you.
How do yo do this?
First you'll need to come up with
some personal stories, either stuff that happened to you, or stuff that
happened to a close friend of yours.
The content, the stuff that actually
happened, isn't that important. Forget about coming up with near death
skydiving experiences or undersea adventures.
The trick is to simply feel and
express the emotions of the story. The content will become irrelevant.
For example, you can tell a story of
how you fell asleep when you were a kid and missed your bus stop on the way
home from third grade. Now, on the surface this sounds pretty lame.
And it will be lame if you tell it
like this:
"Once, when I was a kid, I fell
asleep on the bus and missed my stop. I was pretty scared." If you say
this with a tone of voice and body language that expects a pat on the head,
you're going to go down in flames.
But consider telling it the dramatic
event that it was. Something like this:
"Oh, DUDE! That reminds me when
I was a kid. I had this absolutely HORRIFYING experience! I mean, today, it
sounds funny, but back then, when it happened, I was frikking TERRIFIED!"
Make sure you speak slowly, with lots of variations in voice tone, wide eyes,
and really, really remember the emotions.
The reason this works so well is
girls are drawn to guys that feel passion about life. This doesn't mean that
you do things that belong in action movies.
That means you feel passionate about
LIFE. What is life? That boring stuff that happens day to day.
See, when she sees that you are
passionate about the stuff that bores most other people, her subconscious will
suspect that you'll be passionate about HER, since most girls think they are
average, at best.
The secret of getting better at this
is not faking it. It's really appreciating who you are, and what you've done.
Then just get more and mor comfortable sharing that appreciation.
When you do that, you'll learn the
real secret of seduction. It's not the things "out there" that cause
attraction. It's those emotions. When you learn to find those emotions
anywhere, you won't need anything.
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