How to Keep Your Relationship Lively

How to Keep Your Relationship Lively

So you've captured his interest... but how do you keep it? Are you worried that the butterflies will die down and he will no longer be interested in you? That your "honeymoon phase" is on its way out? Every relationship takes a lot of effort to remain vibrant and entertaining, and both partners have to put in equal amounts to keep it so. On your end, however, what are you supposed to do? How do you keep him coming back for more? How do you surprise him and have him salivating when you walk into a room? The following are a few tips you can use to really keep your man interested.

Don't put it all up front right away. Let him work to figure out who you are and what you stand for. He doesn't need your autobiography, resumé and family history on the first date. Give him a little bit of information about yourself and your interests at a time. Treat it like a game, where when he exchanges information, you give him a little bit in return. This will help to create an air of mystery around you and will keep him coming back for more. This is how you harness his curiosity and turn it into attraction.

If you've been with your boyfriend or husband for some time and are worried that things are going stale, there is another step you can take. Couples often have their own individual interests that they pursue alone instead of together. Why not take some time to get to know his individual interests? Learn about what he likes and if you like it, too, then it can be a new adventure for the both of you. Is he really interested in classic cars? Start reading up on them and see if there is anything about the hobby that piques your interest, as well. Then you two can share something that will keep your relationship lively.

No matter how long you've been with your man, you can't forget to flirt! Flirting is the way we initially express interest in one another, and it can liven up even the dullest couple by reminding them of why we were attracted to each other at the beginning. Be playful and tease him every once in a while. Let him know that you still find him attractive. Boost his ego a bit. It will work wonders!